
I originally wrote this Extreme Couponing 101 post back when the TLC show Extreme Couponing had everyone talking about people walking out of the grocery store with carts full of groceries for almost nothing.
Couponing looks a lot different today than it did back then. We have digital coupons, store apps, loyalty rewards and cashback offers that weren’t part of the way most of us were couponing years ago.
But one thing hasn’t changed. You don’t have to become an extreme couponer with a huge stockpile to save money on groceries.
I’ve always believed that having the right frame of mind and knowing how to use the savings available to you can make a real difference in your grocery budget. The goal isn’t to buy things just because you have a coupon. It’s to save money on the things your family actually needs.
I also learned a long time ago that extreme couponing isn’t always a good thing. I shared some of my thoughts about the dangers of Extreme Couponing after the original show aired, and I still think there’s a difference between saving money and buying things just because they’re cheap.
Here are the 15 steps I recommend if you want to get started saving money with coupons today.
15 Couponing Tips to Help You Save Money
1. Change Your Financial Perspective
Couponing works best when the goal is to spend less, not just to get the biggest discount.
A great deal on something you don’t need is still money you didn’t need to spend. Start by looking at your grocery budget and deciding what you’re actually trying to accomplish. Maybe you want to lower your grocery bill, build a small pantry stockpile or free up money for another financial goal.
2. Let Go of Being a Brand Loyal Shopper
Being willing to switch brands can open up a lot more opportunities to save.
Instead of automatically reaching for the same brand every time, compare the final price after sales, coupons, store rewards and cashback offers. You might find that another brand is the better deal that week.
Of course, there are some things we all have a favorite brand of, and that’s okay too.
3. Start Menu Planning
Meal planning is still one of my favorite ways to save money on groceries.
Before you shop, look at what you already have and then check the week’s sales and available offers. Build your meals around those foods whenever you can.
This helps you use the coupons and deals that actually make sense for your family instead of buying random things just because they’re on sale.
4. Learn the Coupon Lingo
Couponing has changed a lot since I first started, and today you’ll probably hear terms like digital coupon, manufacturer coupon, store coupon, loyalty reward and cashback offer.
You don’t need to learn everything at once. Start with the savings programs at the stores where you already shop and learn how those work first.
5. Map Out a Plan of Action
Before you head to the store, make a plan.
Check the weekly ad, look through the digital coupons in the store’s app or website, see what rewards are available and make your shopping list.
I also like knowing which deals I’m specifically going after before I walk into the store. It makes it much easier to stay focused and avoid buying things I didn’t plan for.
6. Gather Your Coupons and Offers
Years ago this meant clipping coupons from the newspaper and printing coupons at home. Today, a lot of the savings you’ll find are digital.
Check your store’s app or loyalty account for digital coupons and store offers. You can also look for manufacturer coupons and cashback offers that apply to things already on your shopping list.
Just remember that coupon policies vary by store, especially when it comes to combining different offers.
7. Don’t Chase Every Deal
I used to recommend shopping at as many stores as possible, but I don’t think that’s always the best advice anymore.
Driving across town to save a couple dollars can cost you more in gas and time than you actually save.
Choose the stores that consistently have the best deals for the things your family buys and concentrate most of your effort there. If another store has an especially good deal that makes the extra trip worthwhile, then go for it.
8. Learn Your Store’s Savings Policies
Coupon rules aren’t the same everywhere.
Stores have different policies for digital coupons, manufacturer coupons, store offers, rewards, price matching and other promotions. Even pickup and delivery orders can sometimes have different rules.
If you’re unsure whether two offers can be used together, check that retailer’s current coupon or promotion policy before planning your deal.
9. Learn How Drugstore Rewards Work
Drugstores can still be a great place to save on things like toiletries, personal care products and household essentials.
The biggest savings often come from combining sale prices with eligible coupons and store rewards. The important thing is learning the rewards program for the store you use instead of assuming every drugstore works the same way.
Start with one store and learn that program before trying to keep track of several at once.
10. Look for Marked Down Meat and Bread
Don’t forget about clearance and marked down foods when you’re shopping.
Many stores discount meat, bakery items and other foods as they get closer to their sell by or best by dates. If it’s something your family will use soon or you can safely freeze for later, these markdowns can be a great way to save without using a coupon at all.
11. Know Your Stock Up Prices
A stock up price is the price that’s low enough that you’re willing to buy a little extra to use later.
Those prices have changed a lot over the years, so instead of relying on an old stock up price list, pay attention to what the foods and household products you buy regularly cost in your area.
Over time, you’ll start recognizing when a sale is actually a good deal.
And remember, you don’t need a room full of groceries. Buy enough to get your family through until that item is likely to go on sale again.
12. Don’t Shop Hungry
This one hasn’t changed!
Shopping when you’re hungry makes everything look good and can make it much harder to stick to your list.
Eat before you shop whenever you can. Your grocery budget will thank you.
13. Buy Produce That’s in Season
Seasonal produce can often be a great value, especially when stores have an abundance of it.
Build some of your meals and snacks around fruits and vegetables that are priced well that week instead of buying the exact same produce year round regardless of the price.
14. Keep a Running List
Keep a grocery list somewhere that’s easy to update throughout the week.
Add things when you’re getting low instead of waiting until you’re completely out. This gives you time to watch for a sale or coupon instead of having to pay whatever the price happens to be when you desperately need something.
I also like checking my pantry, refrigerator and freezer before I shop so I don’t accidentally buy something I already have.
15. Allow for Wiggle Room
You don’t have to coupon perfectly to save money.
Sometimes the coupon won’t work. Sometimes the sale item will be gone. Sometimes you’ll need something that isn’t on sale at all.
That’s real life.
Give yourself some wiggle room in your grocery budget and focus on what you’re saving overall instead of feeling like every single thing in your cart has to be the absolute lowest price.
You Don’t Have to Be an Extreme Couponer
You probably won’t walk out of the grocery store with hundreds of dollars in groceries for almost nothing like we used to see on Extreme Couponing, and that’s okay.
The goal isn’t to become an extreme couponer.
It’s learning how to shop intentionally, use the savings that are available to you and keep more money in your budget for the things that matter to you.
That’s what I’ve always liked to call Expert Couponing.
And if you’re curious about the extreme couponing craze that inspired this post in the first place, you can also read my interview with one of the original Extreme Couponers from the show, Nathan Engels, also known as Mr. Coupon.







I wish they would make more “Extreme Couponing” episodes. I think I have seen every episode at least twice. I am FAR from an extreme couponer, but I did save 20+% today at the grocery store. This is pretty good, because I am a perimeter shopper, AND I found some deals not in the flyer, so I didn’t have any coupons to go with the items.
MY question is where can i find a website that actually give you some direction or something along those lines of how to begin couponing, i mean i understand you gotta get some coupons but i just want to know how to begin and all those things? anyone know of a good website that will actually answer my questions? because we really wanna start couponing!!!!! thanks so much!
After being hooked on the TLC show forever now , and seeing women of my town becoming great couponist I want to do it to. These days times are really tough on my family financially and I want to take a stand and help out. I have told many friends and family members about my new found passion for wanting to become a couponist, but they have all doubted me. I know I can do this I just need HELP. Any suggestions on where to start ?? I know im young but I am so incredibly interested and I am ready to prove my doubters WRONG.
I am a home school mom of 5 and I have just started couponing this week! I have been scouring the internet for printable coupons, websites, etc. I’m exhausted!!! I’m looking forward to your online classes because I really just don’t know where to start and I’ve had a very unrealistic view of couponing up until today. I look forward to learning how to save money for our family in a realistic way! Thanks 🙂
I am not even sure where to start, literally! I dont even know where or how to get these huge books of coupons I see on the shows! I could really use some help with that!
I have been watching the show! It would be awesome to save just 25 % or 50% of our grocery bills! I am a stay at home mom of 3 children, all in diapers, 2 and under! So any money saved will be well used! Last year when my husbands job was at an all time low; I was having a quite complicated pregnancy with our now 9 month old twins! So needless to say what money was coming in and would already be streatched too far was going no where since I was have to make a 2 hr trip to the Dr and a 2 hr trip back 2 to 3 times a week! We got really behind and I was worried about how we would keep the things we had, not destroy our credit, and still be able to take care of everything our children both needed and deserved! My children are everything to me and I would love to learn this handy little tool so that I am not in this situation again of having to choose between what the kids need and little luxeries in life that they would like to have! My husbands job has picked up THANKFULLY to God! God saw us through a very tough time with finances! I still feel this will be a great thing to learn as his job is very unpredictable and we could be in the same place in no time! Any help would be greatly appreciated! Can’t wait to learn your skills!
After getting hooked on the TLC program, I started to try to figure out how to do this and start some stockpiles on my small food budget that I spend a month with 6 of us. It took a lot of planning, I found myself really having to plan more, asking for coupons from neighbors, my family and friends, finally buying more papers so that I would have enough was a little more extreme to my liking, but I am getting the hang of this, I calculated my whole savings just this month and we spent $350.00 and bought over $900.00 worth of stuff. My kids granted will be eating a lot of hot dogs over the summer, those were one of my free items, but I think I will get better at it at time comes. Just keep trying, as long at it does not take over my garage and I can help more people in the process this will pay off! Thank God for a way to save and help people without breaking the bank!
I was really intrigued by the incredible savings of the “couponers”, but I was left a little troubled once I viewed their homes. It’s one thing to save your family money and create a food storage, but looking at their homes, their couponing looked more like an obsessive disorder.
I grew up with two parents who were “Depression babies” and they had a pantry in the basement with two freezers. They never stocked beyond the four walls of this pantry and they never purchased far more than they needed simply because they got charge making a killing at the cash register.
I want to be careful what I learn from these clever couponers, but I don’t want to lose sight of what it means to be wasteful and collecting more than I need.
I’m so excited for your class! I’m a newbie couponer and am only in the process of collecting my coupons and am not sure what to do next so I’m really excited. Thanks for teaching us newbies! 🙂
I’m glad you’ll be joining us! These are going to be very simple classes for regular shoppers like me!
Can’t wait to see what you have in store for this “course”! 🙂 Maybe this will be covered – or maybe it’s something you’ll have to answer by email – but how do we determine what a “good deal” is on certain products? I always feel like I’m WAY over-paying. (And yes, I realize this could vary by location!)
Thanks Julie! I will try to cover what a good price is over the next few weeks!
I am a stay at home mom of two and can’t wait to learn how to save my family money!!
I get frustrated because we don’t have stores that double coupons here. BUT this month I didn’t have to buy as much food because last month I was able to get some really good deals. I am still learning, but would like to know how to get the really great deals without double couponing.
I am so excited that you are going to do a online class about couponing. I just don’t get it. So count me in. I thank you. SHerree
I wish there was a class to take in my area. I live in Howell MI. And even if there was a class hear i wouldn’t know how to find it.
Debra, I’m going to teach an online class over the next 15 weeks. I will post a new “lesson” each Tuesday showing how you can implement these 15 steps and become and Expert Couponer, so you can learn from home =)
I would love how to use coupons better, I really, well our family really needs to save money right now, this will be great!
How funny, I just wrote about being coupon clueless on my blog today after seeing a preview for this show. I would love to start figuring out how to spend less money!
I think what frustrates me most in my area is we don’t have any stores that do the double coupon thing at all. Our Kroger used to then they stopped. That really puts a bind if it is something I use a lot.